Post engagement woes

Pretty much everyone I know have been asking me how I feel about getting married. To the ones I am not close to, I lie saying I am feeling scared and weird. Ones that I am close to, well, I tell them the truth. I tell them that I actually am not feeling anything at all. I think after 3 months or so, one fine Saturday morning, I will wake up in cold sweat realizing that I am married. Or may be I wont. But as of now I am pretty numb. Pooja, on the other hand, not only gets questions but also advice. She gets pretty annoyed (I pretty much copied her title). I think both of us will be relaxed and back to normal once the event is over.

Also, never get into the mess of getting involved in planning a wedding from a different continent. Its very inefficient and frustrating, like working in a waterfall project for a big organization. I am sitting in the Hong Kong transit and pondering as to how much work I have left to do. If you want to console me with a bachelor's party, I will be more than happy. Go ahead, plan one.