Breakups

One of the second toughest thing a person goes through in life is a breakup or heart break. One of the toughest, however, is going through your best friend's breakup. Now that, let me tell you, is a real big bummer.

When its your breakup, you are allowed to make mistakes, to do stupid things, to not be responsible or responsive. You are, but of course, depressed and heart broken. But if your best friend is going through a break up, then you have no excuses. You have to make sure that your friend is not smoking a lot, not drinking herself to death, not doing drugs or if was doing has not stopped, doesn't take sleeping tablets to sleep, doesn't binge nor fast, doesn't hit on random people - men or women, to get back at the bitch who broke her heart. No sir, you can't let your guard down. The worst part is not to get ticked off when you try to make the guy look bad by telling her how pathetic he was and be yelled at because you are judging him. Oh, how could I forget - Make sure your friend goes to work, not picks up fight on the road or the mall, make sure she goes out on to the road or the mall in the first place, skip work with a very short notice and sit at home with her, keep talking to her once every 4 hours (frequency depending on how crazy she was about him) and in most of the cases, not let her parents or any others know that she is going through all these and cover up. You basically have no room for mistakes else something bad would happen about which you would feel guilty for the rest your life.

Trust me, your best friend's breakup is the most demanding phase of your life. It doesn't happen because of your friend's sin. Its your sins, my fellow reader, that cause your friend to breakup. You are responsible for it.